Monday, July 12, 2010

Every detail counts


The most interesting part of the movie, for me, was Jamal Malik, using every experience in his life to win the coveted millions; the slum dog millionaire knew this secret. Every question provoked an answer based on every tiny detail of his not so old and good life; he found a meaning and a reason for the tiniest speck of whatever happened or how it happened. ..hmn, what a good memory you gat, Jamal.
I am done; this is not a slum dog millionaire review.
Like a flash, our experiences visit us for a split second and dash out the door; the good, the bad and the ugly. And every tiny detail replays and then we are like ‘what the ...? Fill in the blank.
I watched a baby trying to get a toy; it got it, after some falls, failing forward.
Most times The very Good part of our lives hang on our sitting room walls, facing the visitor, all framed up for public consumption and applause. For a home I visited years back, was their father’s handshake with IBB. So brief a moment but a constant reminder was needed, because it was cool and good to shake the president. Here, we have the medals, awards and many more synonyms.
The Bad; I will like to see it as, the ‘ouch! I blew it’ part .it is usually obvious to the staring crowd of witness. The humbling part that stamps a forgettable mark in the minds of viewers, when we are spotted from afar, the first thing that pops out of the head is ...oh! That is the dude that messed up big time. Like popcorn in the making. And we go searching for ways to boost our mental toughness, good answers to store, for whosoever summons courage to challenge. Fighting strong during the day but terrified at night or sometimes the ‘whatever’ response.
Finally, the Ugly part that desperately pushes us to get a good broom and sweep the eew! Under the rug, we sweep it so hard that it becomes obvious that we are hiding an ugly moment; our plastic smiles sell us out; every innocent topic that touches a word close to the Ugly flash sends us fighting back with an aggression to the dismay of the ears around us. It appears like using an AK47 to kill a Tsetse fly. ‘Chill now...na waoh for you!!’ heard all around...
Coming to terms with every tiny detail as an experience worth filing neatly for a future retrieval helps a lot. Mistakes can be corrected; doing nothing cannot be corrected. Every story counts in the real life, we may be cool with saving it up rather than framing it for the eyes but the fragments that keep unfolding help us in the forward move, each daybreak presents us with questions and our answers come mostly from the Good, the Bad and the Ugly, not just the Good, sometimes we call these answers, Hunches.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

BRAND


My first day at work was a bright one, this fateful Day saw me walked in to the office with a beautiful but cheap shirt. I know Cheap is relative, so lets say, the price could go for ten shirts compared to what the cut looked like .Head high with no regards, confidence personifie; much later in the day, a lady walked up to me and politely asked if she could check my collar, I gladly said yes, I was so certain she wanted to know my size, so I proudly offered my back ,after a glance, she thanked me with an understanding smile, months later ,I found out she was looking for the designer of the shirt, I bought my ‘hongbiantian’ designer shirt because it looked fine and fitting; with my well cut pants, my mirror told me…girl, you look good!

I had no idea it looked like a TM until I was told.

It’s amazing how branding defines our outlook in life, it defines our idea of beauty and good. A good brand name could be use for a cover, we are often tempted to brand people around us, we find ourselves relating more with the brands on an individual than the content, sometimes our level of niceness or kindness to an individual is determined by the quality of accessories he or she tags around his or her frame. This can be too superficial for a meaningful life, no wisdom is found in classifying human beings based on their brand of shoes, shirts and trousers, its goes deeper than Gucci and jimmy choo, beneath the seen.

The unseen unique virtues lurking in hearts holds the true meaning of life; it’s cooler and much more secure. It’s a talent to treat each person as a unique being with a vision, it’s simply divine.

Yeah! I always hear ‘it’s all about the packaging’ that’s the reason why same contents go for different prices, a bottle of water may buy a whole big bag of sachet water,which would last for a whole week.
Every where... We preach it in churches; I read it, in books and also pick it in the heat of a gist. Cool, the prices rise based on the packaging ...hello? we are talking of beings not things this time... at the point where dealing with a fellow human being is affected by this packaging mentality, Sad will be the best word. If friends are made based on peripheral things like scarf and perfumes then it’s far from funny. Of course my shirts improved...lol...
The joy of humanity lies in sharing our breath with every one even the less privileged and the privileged. Giving preferential treatment to those with better packages leave others helpless, why don’t we brand ourselves instead of branding the accessories on us, brand our heads or brains with knowledge that can’t be stolen, brand our intellects, brand our speech, our hearts with love overflowing, why don’t we brand our hands with selfless service to the handless people around, the world will be so much a better place for us. Consciousness on the unseen branding takes us farther that undue stress on branding the seen. That’s my idea of Swag...

Thursday, February 11, 2010

IT WOULD BE COOL TO FILL A NEED

So cool! Whatever your hands find doing, do it,
Whatever your hands don’t find doing, create it.
In this world there is always a need to be filled, there is always something to do but most times the question is what’s the price, if you don’t find a price tagged job then dodge idleness by getting busy with whatever your hands find doing, which is creating a job. My pastor once said if there is nothing to do then get praying, there will be ENOUGH time for prayer, pray for everyone you know, pray for all the wrong you want changed, pray for your country, pray for your leaders, pray for the sick, helpless, pray for your friends.
there are so many wrongs that can keep you busy on your knees.
If we look around us, we have a lot of people that need JUST a person to talk to, those that checked out on life need the gift of hope ,some hard hearts need a kind heart to love them unconditionally, we need to wake up to this call ,that is more of a command to reach out, pulling up the perishing on the road to destruction, placing smiles on faces to encourage the orphans and widows in black, we are called to get busy, It must not be accompanied with millions in accounts, we can find where to start by getting a need filled,
Inventors filled a need that was seen or obvious; we could troubleshoot around us with good outcomes and fill it with our capabilities. Even With my little understanding of how business ideas come out, it is finding the need around and trying to solve the situation
In order to this we need to get rid of some factors in our lives,
Fear of past experiences:
We are so chained by the shackles of our pasts to a point of slavery, we cannot let go, the hurts that we went through, hurts from backstabbing dear ones, hurts from bankruptcy, hurt from jilted ones, hurts from marriages, we cling so much to the fact that we can be rejected again and we sit in our comfort zones, afraid to open our curtains for the fear of being seen again, we need to unlock this rusted padlocks and dare to take strides like men of valour and fill whatever needs we can fill,
most times God gives us challenging tasks that will make us stand and ask 'how possible is this', but if go in his might, things will flow accordingly ,
Abraham took his household and followed with trust in the almighty, one stride after the other and he was blessed ,God uses people like Gideon with past experience of failure ,those of us hiding in the threshing floor of fear, come out and shine .
It is not how you start but it is the finishing that counts, no matter how you were at the beginning of a race you will never get the trophy for starting, but it’s the end that justifies the means. Our tomorrow is sure to be beautiful with God on our side.
When all hell is set loose against you, it is an indication that God is about to do something big in your life. God finishes before he begins, he makes a way of escape. Take off the wrapping, God is with you.
Intimidation:
Circumstances shouldn’t define who we truly are; it’s the promise of God for our lives that best describes us and the bible called us men and women of valour. On seeing the intimidating sights around us, we are always tempted to withdraw into our shells and we pretend we never even had the desire to conquer, for instance a guy sees a beautiful woman, he wants to ask for a date, he shaved his beards clean, ironed his best clothing, groomed himself well and confidently showed up on seeing the woman , to his dismay, the woman asked if he is actually talking to her when it is so obvious, she proceeds to ask ‘ can I help you ?’ and suddenly he melts down to say ‘not actually’. May be I should give a personal example.
I was so confident, I packed some food stuff to give a certain woman that lives in a shack around the corner on our street, I was so happy within that I was helping ,you know that joy that bubbles within when you are giving a helping hand, she rejected my offer with capital No, I was damn surprised because I looked around and didn’t see an iota of affluence, I had to tip toe on some rocks to get there because it was waterlogged, poverty was written all over her shack, I only extended a hand of help but I was rejected with my gift and I stood there feeling alone and silly, she clearly said she needed no help, this made me to shut out many who I saw needed my help but thank God I eventually opened up, I felt intimidated and it stopped me from helping others who were really in need of my help and were willing to receive my assistance,
let us shake out this intimidation issue and do what we really are called to do. It could force us to isolation, let’s make use of this isolation for our own good because we usually here two voices when in isolation, one of the tempter discouraging us and reminding us of our failures and how small we really are ,then the second voice gives us identity when we have a relationship with God.
Fear of inadequacy:
Honestly speaking from many patriarchs of the bible, there is this common trend of them feeling real inadequate for the task ahead, we have Moses saying he stammers, we have Sarah laughing at the angel’s promise of a child at an old age, we see Gideon saying he is never been a warrior in his life, we have so many more names of inadequate people who turned out great with God.
We start assigning responsibilities to people because we think they are capable of doing it and at the end they don’t deliver as we thought they would. The fear of inadequacy should drive us to go extra mile to deliver. Let’s come out of hiding and shine.
God challenges you beyond your competencies, it is in you, let’s stop saying ‘God I can’t do it’
You are not going in your might just take a step like a toddler and when you stumble ,the great one will steady you like a father and his child, he knows us better than we know ourselves, our fears are not hidden from him.
The spirit of doubt:
Dwindling faith from too many delays gets us discouraged and doubts set in, we need to get rid of discouragement.
The fear of being husbands doesn’t stop us from going ahead with the proposals, the fear of being a mother doesn’t stop us from saying ‘I do’ and giving birth.
We find ourselves fighting strong during the day but terrified at night, encouraging and strengthening others but anxious and scared at night, just believe every word in the bible, like Abraham, keep going!
Building a hut is totally different from building an edifice, it takes lesser days to build the former, it takes no weight lifting vehicles, what God has in store for every one of us is greater than we can imagine. You are Terrified because the call is greater than you, hiding in the winepress like Gideon. But if God is before me, who can be against me, not just a thresher of wheat but a thresher of men, the spirit of doubt should be thrashed, let’s take the centre stage, our identity is in God, boldness, strength, grace in abundance to that which we are called to fill on this planet, let us do it while we are on his foot stool.
Remember, God has called you a mighty man of valour, a mighty woman of valour, what do you see?

Monday, March 9, 2009

why wonders of a soft touch?

For the last few days, i have been trying to hear God's still small voice and to allow the voice determine my movement on this earth. My purpose here was distracted at a point with so many voices screaming and I arrived at a standstill wondering where to go with my life.
Soft touch came so clear and vivid but a whisper,thats touching the hard heart of man with the christ like love, it was so interesting discovering this assignment, twas fulfilling watching God change a heart of stone to flesh and so demanding too.can I do it,despite the hurts involved, the lashing out of misunderstanding,then I remember,Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways ackowledge Him .
it's been wonderful and cool hearing the voice of God each day from his words,telling me what do to,Ifeel like a boat with a rider, its been trying and encouraging knowing his ways are not mine
Yesterday, I found myself wondering that sooner or later, I will be a fully endorsed strange girl,lol, hmn...then i thought it's much safer knowing that your boat has a Rider and the Rider will bring you to an expected end than moving on the deep waters without a Rider.
I also discovered I pray to God and don't always allow Him speak and even if He does speak, I dont hear,gradually God's peace that surpasses all understanding is taking my being,like a search light.Am no longer searching for persons to give me peace,Should I call it wreckless Abandoment to God's will? yeah! thats it.
He truly speaks! oh! I would have saved my self all these heart aches,regrets,mistakes if i heard the soft voice, felt the soft touch,gave others the feel of a soft touch instead of giving them what they gave.
His voices calms the turbulent waves...
His voice quiets my restless soul...
His voice brings peace to the weary...
All these lines above, I knew , either from my daddy's hymnal or some piece of paper on his table. O how long it took me to understand them,now I know the meaning.
Its been awesome hearing the voice and following it, its like reflecting on an earlier incidence,smiling to yourself and saying 'was that the reason you told me to walk away'?
Closely, following ,God will help us clasp our hands in His and take us to our expected end ,let us not panic,He knows the strands of hair on our heads even when we were but liquid in our mamas ' wombs,when we formed in the secret.Solving our lives puzzle daily,God will.
OMNISCIENCE,OMNIPOTENT,OMNIPRESENT.
Lets give the feeling of a soft touch from God to every face we meet under the sun
thanks,